Clubs by State
Browse lifestyle clubs across all 50 states and Washington DC. Pick a state to open its directory — each lists the major cities and a live map search for clubs near you.
What's in this directory
The Happy Swinger's club directory lists real, verified lifestyle clubs across all 50 states and Washington DC, organized by state and city so you can find on-premise, off-premise and meet-and-greet venues near you. Every profile includes dress code, couples and singles policies, amenities, hours and upcoming events — so you know what to expect before you go.
- On-Premise clubs
Play happens on-site with play rooms, BYOB bars and themed party nights.
- Off-Premise clubs
Social dance-and-mix venues where couples connect; play happens off-site.
- Meet & Greets
Low-pressure off-premise mixers, ideal for couples new to the lifestyle.
Don't see your club? Submit a club to add it to the directory — every approved submission becomes its own indexable profile page.
How to use the directory
The Happy Swinger organizes lifestyle clubs by state and city so you can move from browsing to booking in a few steps. Here is the fastest way to find a club that fits what you are looking for.
- 1Pick your state
Open the club directory and choose your state from the full 50-state list. Each state has its own page with every listed city.
- 2Browse by city
Inside a state, clubs are grouped by city so you can scan what is near you and compare options without leaving the page.
- 3Open a club profile
Each profile shows the club type, dress code, couples and singles policies, amenities, hours and links to the club's website and socials.
- 4Check events & businesses
Profiles surface upcoming parties hosted at the venue, and city pages link nearby lifestyle-friendly businesses for a full night out.
- 5Submit a club if it's missing
Don't see your club? Submit it through the community form. Once an editor approves it, it becomes its own indexable profile page.
Ready to start? Browse the full club directory or read the Lifestyle 101 guides first if you are new to the lifestyle.
Featured clubs
Hand-picked, well-known lifestyle clubs across the country.
Escape
On-Premise · BYOB
An upscale, discreet on-premise club in Cleveland hosting couples-focused Saturday events with a boutique feel, professional lighting and a no-pressure vibe.
View club ClevelandClub Eros Cleveland
On-Premise · BYOB
Cleveland's longest-running on-premise lifestyle club, welcoming couples and vetted singles for weekly Saturday nights. Multiple themed play rooms, a spacious dance floor and a relaxed social lounge make it a favorite for first-timers and veterans alike.
View club East Tampa, TampaEyz Wide Shut
On-Premise
Florida's #1 upscale on-premise lifestyle club and playground, in Tampa. Ten private themed rooms and three group rooms, a full-service bar, and an energetic dance floor. Themed party nights run Wednesday–Saturday. 21+, membership required; group rooms are couples and single females only.
View club Tamarac / N State Rd 7, Fort LauderdaleTrapeze Club
On-Premise, BYOB
The longest-established on-premise lifestyle club in South Florida — upscale, members-only, BYOB, with a five-star dining spread, locker rooms, and multiple play areas. Open five nights a week (Wed–Sun). Saturday nights are couples-only; other nights welcome vetted singles.
View club Doral / NW Miami, MiamiMiami Velvet
On-Premise
South Florida's long-running, members-only on-premise lifestyle nightclub. BYOB, large dance floor, lounge and private play areas. Open Friday and Saturday nights (10pm–4am). First-time visiting couples get a complimentary one-day membership — a friendly on-ramp for tourists.
View club AtlantaTrapeze Atlanta
On-Premise · BYOB
One of the Southeast's best-known on-premise lifestyle clubs, with a BYOB bar, complimentary buffet, dance floor and extensive play rooms. Couples and single women; membership and cover apply.
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Club directory FAQ
How do I find a swingers club near me?+
Open the club directory and pick your state. Each state page lists every city with a club profile, so you can browse by city and open the club that interests you. Every profile shows the dress code, couples and singles policies, amenities, hours and upcoming events so you know what to expect before you go.
What is the difference between on-premise, off-premise, and meet-and-greet clubs?+
On-premise clubs host parties where play happens on-site in private or semi-private play rooms, usually with a BYOB bar and themed nights. Off-premise clubs are social dance-and-mix venues where couples connect and arrange to take things off-site afterwards. Meet-and-greets are low-pressure off-premise mixers, often at a bar or restaurant, and are ideal for couples who are new to the lifestyle.
Are the clubs in this directory verified?+
Every listing is reviewed before it goes live. Club owners and community members can submit a club, and our editors confirm the basics — location, type, website and policies — before publishing it as its own indexable profile page. Profiles marked Featured are well-known, hand-picked clubs across the country.
What information does each club profile include?+
Each profile lists the club type, city and state, a description of the vibe, dress code, couples and singles policies, how welcoming it is to newcomers, amenities, hours, and links to the club's website and social channels. Where available, the profile also surfaces upcoming events hosted at that venue.
How do I add my club to the directory?+
Use the Submit a club form on this page. Enter the club name, state, city, type and a short description; once an editor approves it, your club becomes its own indexable profile page with its own URL. Listing a club in the directory is free.
Can couples new to the lifestyle use this directory?+
Yes. The directory is built for couples at every stage. Each profile notes how newbie-friendly a club is, and meet-and-greets are flagged separately so first-timers can find low-pressure socials before considering an on-premise party. The Lifestyle 101 guides explain etiquette, communication and what to expect.
Is The Happy Swinger club directory free to use?+
Yes. Browsing the directory, opening club profiles and checking upcoming events is completely free for couples. There is no login required to read listings.
Every post is vetted for validity and approved by our team. Submissions are reviewed by a real person and only appear here once approved — so what you see is always trustworthy.
Tampa, Florida
Florida's #1 upscale on-premise lifestyle club and playground, in Tampa. Ten private themed rooms and three group rooms, a full-service bar, and an energetic dance floor. Themed party nights run Wednesday–Saturday. 21+, membership required; group rooms are couples and single females only.
Miami, Florida
South Florida's long-running, members-only on-premise lifestyle nightclub. BYOB, large dance floor, lounge and private play areas. Open Friday and Saturday nights (10pm–4am). First-time visiting couples get a complimentary one-day membership — a friendly on-ramp for tourists.
Atlanta, Georgia
One of the Southeast's best-known on-premise lifestyle clubs, with a BYOB bar, complimentary buffet, dance floor and extensive play rooms. Couples and single women; membership and cover apply.
Littleton, Colorado
A long-established on-premise lifestyle resort on a private property outside Denver, with indoor and outdoor play areas, pools, hot tubs and themed weekend events. Membership required; couples and pre-approved single women.
Las Vegas, Nevada
Las Vegas' longest-running on-premise lifestyle club, with more than 13,000 square feet of dance floors, lounges, and play areas in a safe, friendly setting.
Dallas, Texas
A private, membership-only on-premise social club for couples and vetted singles, with a dance floor, lounge, and play areas. Part of the colette clubs group.
Land O'Lakes, Florida
A clothing-optional, on-premise lifestyle resort and spa in the Tampa area with pools, nightlife, and weekend events for couples and select singles.
New York City, New York
An on-premise swinger club in New York City offering an upscale, membership-based experience for couples and vetted singles with RSVP-only event nights.
Fort Lauderdale, Florida
The longest-established on-premise lifestyle club in South Florida — upscale, members-only, BYOB, with a five-star dining spread, locker rooms, and multiple play areas. Open five nights a week (Wed–Sun). Saturday nights are couples-only; other nights welcome vetted singles.
San Francisco, California
San Francisco's established couples-only swinger party, held most Saturdays with a sultry, intimate vibe near the waterfront. BYOB.
Cleveland, Ohio
An upscale, discreet on-premise club in Cleveland hosting couples-focused Saturday events with a boutique feel, professional lighting and a no-pressure vibe.
Cleveland, Ohio
Cleveland's longest-running on-premise lifestyle club, welcoming couples and vetted singles for weekly Saturday nights. Multiple themed play rooms, a spacious dance floor and a relaxed social lounge make it a favorite for first-timers and veterans alike.
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