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West KY Lifestylers
Kentucky · West Kentucky
Group serving alternative lifestyles including BDSM, polyamory, kink and fetish across western Kentucky.
Indiana Relationship Anarchy & Poly Book Club
Indianapolis, Indiana · Indianapolis
Community studying and discussing relationship anarchy and polyamory concepts in Indiana.
Hosts recurring events
Louisville Area Polyamory Society
Louisville, Kentucky · Louisville
Welcoming community for people exploring or living ethical non-monogamy in the Louisville area.
Hosts recurring events
Polydelphia
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania · Philadelphia
Long-standing polyamory community and social group serving Philadelphia's polyamorous and ENM community.
Hosts recurring events
Indiana Polyamory
Indiana · Indiana Statewide
Discussion group for like-minded polyamorous people across Indiana.
Philadelphia NonMonogamous Nightlife Events
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania · Philadelphia
Community organizing educational and recreational social spaces for nonmonogamous people in and around Philadelphia.
Hosts recurring events
Eastern Panhandle WV Lifestylers
West Virginia · Eastern Panhandle
Regional group for like-minded couples in the Eastern Panhandle of West Virginia and surrounding areas, meeting for socials.
Hosts recurring events
Pineapple Swingers Group Northwest Indiana
Indiana · Northwest Indiana
Regional swingers and lifestyle social group serving Northwest Indiana.
Pittsburgh Polyamory Community
Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania · Pittsburgh
Community for non-monogamous people in the Pittsburgh and southwestern Pennsylvania area, with social events and discussion.
Hosts recurring events
Indy Polyamory
Indianapolis, Indiana · Indianapolis
Polyamory social community in Indianapolis hosting regular social and educational events for polyamorous and ENM folks.
Hosts recurring events
Michigan Polyamory
Michigan · Michigan Statewide
Discussion group and supportive community for polyamorous people in and around Michigan.
Western Michigan Polyamory
Grand Rapids, Michigan · West Michigan
Community for people in the lifestyle more interested in the polyamory aspect than swinging, based in West Michigan.
Poly Ann Arbor
Ann Arbor, Michigan · Ann Arbor
Polyamory social group creating an environment where poly people can meet. Social and educational focus, not a dating group.
Hosts recurring events
Ann Arbor Alternative Lifestyles Meetup
Ann Arbor, Michigan · Ann Arbor
Community of open-minded individuals exploring alternative lifestyles, including polyamory, BDSM, and related interests, in the Ann Arbor area.
Hosts recurring events
Metro Detroit Polyamory
Detroit, Michigan · Metro Detroit
Community hosting regular polyamory and ENM social, educational, and support events across metro Detroit.
Hosts recurring events
Ohio Alternative Lifestyles (OAL)
Cleveland, Ohio · Northeast Ohio
Welcoming, safe space for individuals interested in BDSM, kink, ethical non-monogamy, and alternative relationships. Active 6+ years.
Hosts recurring events
Poly Club!
Cleveland, Ohio · Northeast Ohio
Community-focused group for polyamorous individuals and those exploring polyamory in Cleveland, Ohio.
Hosts recurring events
OPENLOVE Cleveland / OpenLove Society
Cleveland, Ohio · Northeast Ohio
Greater Cleveland/Akron non-monogamy community offering education, socializing, and peer support. Hosts regular in-person gatherings (mixers, game days, speed dating) at No Class in Cleveland.
Hosts recurring events
PolyColumbus
Columbus, Ohio · Central Ohio
Community providing a safe, comfortable, and welcoming space for those exploring or living ethical non-monogamy in Central Ohio. Hosts educational and social events.
Hosts recurring events
Adults After Dark Cincinnati Style
Cincinnati, Ohio · Southwest Ohio
Private members-only alternative lifestyle club for bisexual women and couples in the greater Cincinnati area.
Hosts recurring events
Toledo & BG Polyamory
Toledo, Ohio · Northwest Ohio
Community for polyamorous people in Toledo, Bowling Green, and surrounding areas — information, support, and storytelling.
Queers in Cleveland Kink (QUICK)
Cleveland, Ohio · Northeast Ohio
Queer-centered, consent-forward community creating a welcoming, supportive space for LGBTQIA+ people. Led by Cleveland Kink LLC.
Hosts recurring events
Cincinnati Polyamory Community
Cincinnati, Ohio · Southwest Ohio
Community for polyamorous people in Cincinnati to discuss issues, share education, and find support.
OhioSMART
Cleveland, Ohio · Northeast Ohio
Social organization and educational resource for those practicing BDSM, D/s, and fetish lifestyles in the greater Cleveland area. Founded 1995.
Hosts recurring events
r/OHSwingers
Ohio · Ohio Statewide
Reddit community for Ohio swingers to connect and share information about local swinger clubs, events, and parties. Actively moderated.
Hosts recurring events
Academy of Fetish Arts
Cleveland, Ohio · Northeast Ohio
Cleveland fetish-arts education and community space.
Hosts recurring events
r/Ohioswingersr4r
Ohio · Ohio Statewide
Reddit community for Ohio swinger hookup connections. Distinct from r/OHSwingers, which focuses on community info and discussion.
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